Don't Just Plan Dinner, Plan Your Connection!

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Happy Thanksgiving! Please enjoy our Thanksgiving conversation questions featuring the Dance of Hearts 7 Elements of Harmony

Connect, laugh, and share gratitude with your partner or loved ones. Don’t just plan dinner, show intention for your connections and make the day count!

Thanksgiving conversation questions by Dance of hearts


Fun

  • What is your funniest Thanksgiving memory? Something that felt disastrous in the moment but makes you laugh now?

  • If you could invent a silly new Thanksgiving tradition for our family, what would it be?

  • Imagine the Thanksgiving parade added a float inspired by us….what would it look like, what C list celebrity would be singing and what would they sing?

  • If Thanksgiving dinner had “superlatives,” what dish would win Most Dramatic, Most Reliable, Most Likely to Start an Argument, etc.?

  • What do you think the White House pardoned turkey should do with it’s second chance at life? 


Intimacy

  • What is one feeling you’re carrying into this holiday that you want me to know about?

  • When you think about past Thanksgivings, what moment of connection stands out the most?

  • What’s one thing you’re grateful for about us that you haven’t said out loud yet?

  • Who in your family modeled healthy closeness for you around holidays? What did they do?


Meaning

  • Which Thanksgiving tradition carries the most meaning for you, and why?

  • What value do you hope this holiday highlights for us?

  • If we could reshape Thanksgiving to fit our values perfectly, what would stay and what would go?

  • What does “gratitude” genuinely mean to you—not the cliché version, but the lived one?

    Knowing

  • What was Thanksgiving like in your family growing up?

  • What’s one thing about Thanksgiving that people might not guess is important (or unimportant) to

  • you?

  • What part of the holiday tends to be the most energizing for you? What part is most draining?

  • Is there a dish, tradition, or ritual you secretly love (or dislike) that you haven’t told me about?


    Cherishing

  • What is something I did this year that you feel especially grateful for?

  • What’s a quality you see in me that you’re thankful exists in our relationship?

  • What about the way we handle holidays together makes you feel cared for?

  • What small thing about me did you appreciate today?


Healing

  • What is one thing that would help today feel emotionally safe or easier for you?

  • Are there any past holiday hurts or stressors you want me to be mindful of today?

  • How can we support each other if difficult family dynamics come up?

  • What is one small repair or reassurance you’d like from me going into this holiday season?


Sensuality

  • What sensory experience (smell, taste, touch, sight, sound) instantly brings you into a holiday mood?

  • What Thanksgiving flavor or scent feels the most comforting to you, and why?

  • What would help this holiday feel more cozy, relaxing, or nourishing for your body this year?

  • What is a small physical comfort or gesture that would make today feel more connected?


🔥 3 Spicy Thanksgiving-After-Dark Questions

1. “What moment today made you look at me differently—in a way that felt attractive or exciting?”

2. “If we could sneak away from the holiday and have a private moment anywhere we wanted… where would you take me and what would the vibe be?”

3. “What’s one thing you’d love for us to do together tonight that would help us feel close… maybe even a little adventurous?”




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